Catch and Release

Many people commented offering advice with Mr.B and wanted to know what ended up happening...

He asked me out for a third time and I agreed. I was really torn after that last blog because I liked the guy, and I did not feel like another date was 'settling.' I agreed for a few reasons: 1) I did not feel like two dates had been sufficient to really know his heart, and 2) I did not feel that my conviction for abstinence was in any danger. He was a man who had a good career and money, and was used to women dating him for the latter. It's great he has done well for himself, but a Porshe in the garage "don't impress me much!" So I was ready to get to know Mr. B on a deeper level and see what else he was about.

Unfortunately, that particular Wednesday we were to go out, I had way too much going on and had to cancel. I am not playing games here, but I rationalized if he really wanted to get to know me better and was willing to wait for sex, he would ask me out again.

A few days of texting with Mr.B, he still had not picked up the phone and called me. I mentally wrote him off over the weekend, but Monday morning I found several texts from him. He suggested I could invite him over in when I am in my new place. (I'm thinking, "okay, in another 45 days?") I am not a chaser--I like to let a guy call me, so I think I am going to let this fish go...